What I Think About Marriage

I figured I should write down some of my thoughts before I get married.  I’m guessing my perspective will change/mature, and it will be interesting to look back on this list someday.

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• I think that marriage is supposed to be forever.  I think that’s a blessing, not a curse.
• I think that marriage is supposed to teach us to be like Christ.  I think it will be difficult, and I think it will take a long time.
• I think that marriage is an opportunity to grow in numerous ways.  I think that there will be a lot of growing pains, but I think it’s important to remember that there is a purpose to the pain.
• I think that marriage is a beautiful thing, even in the midst of ugliness.
• I think that marriage can teach a man to be more gentle without eroding his strength.  I think that marriage can teach a woman to be more bold without compromising her innocence.
• I think marriage will show us that each of us is selfish and prideful, even if we fancy ourselves thoughtful or humble.  I think this is a surprise for most newlyweds.
• I think that marriage will be fulfilling in many ways.  I think it’s important to remember that marriage doesn’t fulfill all needs, however.  I also think it’s good to determine what those needs are.
• I think that marriage will have both high points and low points.  I think this is normal.
• I think that marriage will be fun.  I think it will be a fantastic way to go through life.
• I think that marriage will be hard.  I also think it will be worth it.

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These are just some thoughts that come to mind right now.  As my wedding day will arrive in 29 days, I’ll soon begin to experience marriage first-hand.  We’ll see what I’m right and wrong about, and what I haven’t thought about.  Which brings me to my last thought:

• I think marriage is meant to be an adventure.  Here we go!

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